Tuesday, 12 May 2026
Days out in my campervan in April 2026
Saturday, 9 May 2026
Week 18 One Daily Positive and Project 365
The negatives
There was no mobile signal on the campsite which we knew about at time of booking but there was wifi but it was rubbish, kept kicking us out and was very slow. It wasn't a big issue really but annoying as it is supposed to be a benefit of our annual membership.
I feel I'm lacking purpose at the moment having spent 6 months training for a marathon that was run 4 weeks ago now.
The positives
I've got lots of things lined up and lots of things to look forward to.
Saturday 2nd April We had a leisurely morning despite being woken by the birds around 6am and around 11am we set off on a 5 hour 10 mile round walk via the road to Stackpole where Stephanie used to go on holiday with her school between 2000 and 2008. It's owned by the National Trust and offers accessible accommodation which is self catering for people with disabilities, with wet rooms and grab rails and step free access. We explored the grounds, met some lovely volunteers who were happy to explain how Stackpole operated and directed us to the beach that Stephanie would have visited and showed us from the outside the accommodation block she would have stayed in during her visits at that time. It was a lovely visit and nice to be in a place that Stephanie had been even if it was a part of her life we never experienced with her, especially as there weren't many places she went without us. We stopped at the local pub on our way back for dinner. Peter went back to the van and I stayed on for a bit to use the wifi and catch up with messages.
Sunday 3rd April We went to visit my old student and her mum today after a morning of lounging around. Back to the van to watch the Man Utd game and evening on the beach.
Monday 4th April A bit of a lie in then packed the awning and tent, made a coffee, washed up and showered and set off at 11am on our way home. Stopped for a Starbucks at St Clears and got breakfast in the van. Home around 3pm, unpacked and just chilled out for the afternoon in between putting the washing on and sorting the cat and getting ready for work in the morning. I uploaded the rest of the baby clothes on vinted on the drive home and did some blogging, reading and watched an episode of Eastenders I'd downloaded on iplayer. Sat in the garden and started a new book. Bath, dinner and bed early to watch gogglebox.
Tuesday 5th April Back to work, played dodgeball with a stool and straight to the coffee shop to switch off with some blogging, then home to read, pack the tent away that Peter had put up to dry during the day and take the washing in that I''d hung out last night. I had a bath and an early night.
Wednesday 6th April A good day in work in Spanish all day covering while the spoken exams are on. I called in at home on my way to the coffee shop as I have to drive right past the house, did some shopping for gluten free things, then a coffee and blogging whilst waiting for my friend (the one who cuts my hair) treated myself to a hot chocolate. Home for dinner, schedule some posts, read, watched TV on my phone in the bath and bed. Ferry booked for Northern Ireland for half term.
Thursday 7th April Left work as the bell rang and drove straight to the Three Counties Showground for the RHS Malvern Spring Festival. It was lovely to walk around without the crowds and get to talk to some people about their show gardens and take some photos without having to wait for ages. Bumped into an ex work colleague who was there with his wife who was exhibiting and has won a couple of silvers and a bronze. We're going back on Sunday with my oldest friend of 34 years. Home to strip the spare bed and re make as she is coming to stay on Saturday night. Watched some TV and did some blogging, a late night.
Friday 8th April B12 jab after work then a coffee with old student who has her GCSE's starting next week for a morale boost. Home to watch Gardener's World see the bits I saw being filmed yesterday and find out a bit more about some of the exhibits I'd seen.
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Days out in my campervan in March 2026
Word of the week - Purpose
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I've made lots of plans this week and I've got lots of things to look forward to over the next few months.
My diary has been full of coffee dates this week and is getting booked up for next week also. I went to The RHS Malvern Spring Festival 2026 after work on Thursday for a couple of hours and we're going again on Sunday with my friend who is staying over on Saturday night. But before that it's out out for drinks with my friend tomorrow night.
This week I've booked a ferry crossing to Northern Ireland for Whitsun week to visit the grandsons. My friend in South Africa has confirmed our annual meet up in Paris the 3rd weekend in June, which means every weekend in June is now fully booked with a family wedding, another show at the Three Counties that my mum and Aunt are coming to stay for, then there is Paris and finally a meet up with my friend Mary.
I've been reading this week, loads of washing has been, lots of blogging and plenty of sleep.
I've got plenty to do. I'm not bored. Life is varied. There is so much to be done around the home and the garden and we're getting on with it all quite happily. There's no boredom or feeling that life is repetitive.
I just feel a bit lost, a bit lonely, not alone. I don't have a purpose at that the moment. No one needs looking after. I've got no purpose. I've been reminded of this as I keep getting my covid -19 invites which I was qualified for as Stephanie's carer.
Training for my marathon in Brighton in April gave me purpose. It got me out the house and gave me something to aim for. I had 6 months to get myself ready from not having run since I was in school using couch to 5k to my first park run and taking part in 2 ultra challenges in London and Bath after I did the first one in September 2025 for Bowel Research UK to mark the first anniversary of Stephanie's death.
We spent last weekend camping in Pembroke and found ourselves only 3-4 miles away from Stackpole a place where Stephanie holidayed as a child with her old school and we took a coastal walk to explore the area. This evening I dug around in her memory box to look through her photos.
I didn't feel sad. The memories felt like a life time ago and I realised I don't need to keep doing things in her name, in her memory anymore. I've done what I needed to do. I've created a legacy for her through the marathon, I've created an online legacy for her through Facebook and my social media accounts and with the fundraising. I've done something in her name, that will live on. I just need to find a new purpose for me now.
I'll carry on running, I just need a bit longer for my knee to heal that I damaged last week. There won't be anymore marathons. I've done that. I enjoyed it, but there's no need to put myself through that again, there's nothing to prove, not even to myself.
I'm content, I'm happy. I just want to carry on making a positive impact on those around me and on my own life and make sure I have personal goals and not get stuck in a rut and keep life meaningful.
Thursday, 7 May 2026
Days out in my campervan in March 2026
Saturday, 2 May 2026
Week 17 - One Daily Positive and Project 365
The negatives
I injured my knee running on Tuesday, I'm struggling to walk and driving has been hard.
The positives
Things have been going a bit mad (for me) on tiktok with a couple of videos and the messaging which has been quite entertaining. I love chatting on WhatsApp to my son in Australia throughout the football.
Saturday 25th April Out for coffee with Peter in the morning then train to Birmingham for the last home game of the season. I got hit in the side of the head with a ball by Bristol City during the warm up and had a banging headache and needed to seek some assistance at half time for some paracetamol. A young lad also got hit in the face and his family sought help then left in the first 20 mins. We won 2-1. I got home at 8pm, neighbour invited me round for a catch up in her garden. I then caught up with all the other matches and had a late night.
Sunday 26th April Woke with a headache and a sore neck. I think I've been affected more than I realised. Watched the London marathon and can't believe the top two finishers did so in under 2 hours, what an achievement. Tracked a colleague from work as he had tracked me two weeks ago. Spent time in the garden while Peter cleaned the lean to roof and I read, did some blogging, sorted some stuff for work and we went for a walk and had coffee in the afternoon. The cat was a nuisance all day. Bath and an early night.
Monday 27th April I forgot there was a meeting after work and didn't get home till almost 6pm. I watered the garden and baked some cakes for my reading group on Thursday as it's my last session with them and sorted through some stickers and little toys I had around the house for them. I also started a trifle for my childcare group on Wednesday. I finished a book and did some blogging. Bath and bed by 10pm.
Tuesday 28th April Home from work, a cup of tea and out for a run. I've done something to my knee and I had to phone Peter up to help me walk/hobble home the last 500ms. I spent an hour on the phone with my mum discussing all her meal failures over the years after my custard failed to set on the trifle I've attempted to make for work tomorrow. Washing on and a few craft things and letter writing kits and gifts put together to work on over the weekend whilst we are away.
Wednesday 29th April Knee hurting all day and a bump with students playing rugby in the corridor didn't help. Haircut after work and a coffee. Home to pack clothes and stuff for the weekend into the van. Bath and an early night and programs downloaded onto phone for watching over the weekend.
Thursday 30th April Sorted out fridge stuff for Peter to pack into the van when he picked me up after work and got the cat litter tray ready and put food out for the cat sitter. Peter drove me to work and collected me and we drove to West Wales for the weekend. It was non school uniform day which was handy and a long weekend for the bank holiday. We arrived at the site at 7pm and were set up by 8pm. We opted not to go out for dinner and ate in the van. No phone signal on site which we knew about but had forgotten wifi password and couldn't reset password as we couldn't get access to our emails.
Friday 1st May Child 3's 34th birthday over in Australia. I'd sent his card over with his easter gifts. I'd put together another parcel to post soon with end of season football program and his girlfriend's favourite chocolate. Still waiting for his limited edition football shirt I ordered in November that apparently won't be arriving until July. During the night a bird got under the van and into the tent and rooted through a bag, grabbed the parcel and a packet of rice and ate the contents of both, leaving the program on the grass and no sign of the letter and some other things. We drove into Tenby, walked along the beach, through the harbour and had breakfast and coffee. There was a pub stop for beer and mocktails and after a stroll to the south beach a late lunch/early dinner then back to the camp site via a supermarket shop for an evening reading and chilling out.
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Word of the week - Can't. I can run a Marathon ... but I can't ...
... squeeze a tube of face cream so I've had to buy it in a pump. It actually works out cheaper.
... open the medication I need for my hiatus hernia caused by the training for the marathon, so I've bought sachets which I can only open with a pair of scissors. It does cost a lot more but I can't carry the large bottle with me anyway.
... I struggle to open the cover on the milk, the lid on new jars, use a tin opener, open these packets that say 'tear here' do a necklace up, put the back of an earring on, write for any length of time.
... but I can run a marathon. I just don't know how helpful that is around the home.
This week I discovered I also can't make a trifle.
My custard wouldn't set. I went ahead and made the dream topping and took it to work in a jug and drove with it to work and put it in the fridge and used it as an example of 'when things go wrong'
It was enjoyed by all, it was just a little runny.







