Saturday, 8 August 2026

Week 31 2026 One Daily Positive and Project 365

The negatives

I'm absolutely shattered from burning the candle at both ends, jobs around the house and garden, going out and sorting things out.

The positives

Having reached out and said I was struggling and bumping into a friend, plus son's paperwork emergency issue, I've had a good week with friends, getting out and getting on with things and feeling much more positive. I've been much more receptive to suggestions from Peter and I've also been much more relaxed and chilled out.

Saturday 1st August A lazy day all round. I finally got up at midday and we went into town. The well had been dressed. We picked up a few things for our holiday. Home to root through the attic and desks to try and track down some paperwork for child 3 in Australia which I know I gave him several years ago. After tidying up everything, which included paperwork in the dining room, the lounge and the loft, we had dinner, the garden was watered and we watched Amazon Prime and I dealt with some idiotic responses on Twitter/X.

Sunday 2nd August Craft room rearranged as I had to get into the loft space to access child 3's keep sake box to prove to him the paperwork I'd given him a few years ago, that he has since lost in a house move, was most definitely not in my possession any more. A load washing on the line, stuff sorted for our holiday and we spent the rest of the day at Witley Court an English Heritage Site. late afternoon spent watching Scarpetta on Amazon, followed by dinner, garden watered and some tidying up done and into bed by 10pm after finding online copies of the documents son needs to discover he had the originals all along, he just didn't recognise them.

Monday 3 August Peter dropped me in town and I went for a coffee, got some stamps and sorted out my travel insurance and a parking ticket. I managed to get the price reduced by 50% from £100 as I explained it was when the dealership registered the car to the wrong address and the neighbour had opened the post and just thrown it and the reminder away. I did accept full responsibility and said I'd chased it up as soon as I'd found out. it was very kind of them to do it for me. I then had a manicure and pedicure, popped to the post office and Peter met me and I had another coffee and it was home for a late lunch and the rest of the day in the garden digging up weeds, cutting back shrubs, while Peter sifted through the soil in the back and wheel narrowing it to the front to finish levelling up the front lawn. The next door neighbour, followed by the neighbour over the road joined us for a chat. I tidied and swept up and got ready for an hours spinfit. Peter had dinner ready and after dealing with a complete breakdown of the 4 way traffic light system outside our house with photos and an email to Cadent as the local slimming world group were just driving out when they fancied and had parked inside the roadworks without working out whose turn it was causing total chaos, we watched TV and then Peter watered the garden and I restored the loft rooms after the paperwork debacle of the weekend. In bed by 10pm. The Theatre of Inconvenience. The Worlds Smallest Theatre.

Tuesday 4 August A lovely, relaxing day. I met two of my friends for brunch, came home to do a lot of tidying and packing and sorting through paperwork. Back into town in the afternoon to get my hair cut by my friend who is a stylist and then we went for coffee. I got home at 7pm. We watched TV and got to bed late. Wondering why we're going on holiday when the weather has been so lovely and we live in such a beautiful place.

Wednesday 5 August We got up, hung washing on the line and went out for coffee to Worcester and stocked up on cat food. Home and pottered around tying up a few loose ends. Suitcases repacked to sort the weight limit out and hand luggage packed. I cleaned the downstairs toilet and the back room ready for the cat. I went out to the retail park to buy some gluten free biscuits and bread rolls for the first few days of our holiday, then had a coffee as I was early for the gym. Peter cleaned the house. I popped round the neighbours to pick up my water bottle. We're all going to Crete on our holidays, about an hour apart, will be funny if we bump into one another while we're away. We watched TV in the evening and I did some blogging and it was another late night after giving the garden a good watering as there is no rain forecast while we are away.

Thursday 6 August Quite a lot of hanging around. I took a walk to the post box and dropped off the contents from the fridge with the neighbour and we made our way to the translation with the car and our cases. I then drove home and walked back to the station.We caught the train to Birmingham airport and had 2 hours to wait ahead of check in and it took about 90 minutes to clear security so we were nicely relaxed ahead of our flight to Crete. It was an uneventful flight, with luggage arriving on time and a smooth transfer an hour away to our hotel. We arrived around 3am local time and our key and welcome note was in reception and we made our own way to our room.

Friday 7 August We set the alarm to wake at 8am (6am UK time) so we could have breakfast, then went back to bed for a couple of hours and slept. We then walked into the nearby town around 10 mins away, which is in an old fishing harbour, passing a selection of restaurants, coffee shops, souvenir shops and cat feeding areas. It's a really pretty town, there's a water park here and lots to do for the next two weeks. We collected some information for some trips and bus routes and bought some basics for snacks and dinner for the evening to eat back in our room, plus some water and juices etc. I went back to sleep for a couple of hours and Peter sat on the balcony. We then explored the local beach area, but I declared it too hot so went back to the room to get myself something to eat while Peter sat by the pool. I joined him later for a quick swim. By 6pm we were back in the room, reading and just chilling out for the evening.



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Friday, 7 August 2026

Post Comment Love 7th-9th August 2026

Welcome back to #PoCoLo with Stephanie from Bosworth.Life and I.

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I've been sorting a lot of stuff out at home. Getting on and doing the things that I've been putting off.

I'm on my 6 week summer holidays. 3 weeks in and a lot has been done, but it's all been done over the past few days. 

I spent the first week lazing around, mostly in bed, on the sofa, going for coffee with Peter and then I started picking up some speed meeting up with friends and Peter and I started visiting National Trust and English Heritage Sites, we had the odd night away and then I was away for a couple of nights on my own and the last few days the house and garden has been blitzed within an inch of it's life.

I always feel I could be a lot more productive during the school holidays and at the same time I always feel I should rest more but enjoy the time. 
I feel the balance has been quite good this summer, mostly down to the fact we've had such lovely weather and I've been able to spend so much time outdoors especially when we live in such a beautiful part of the world, it's felt like a proper holiday this year.

The walk back to the car park from the hairdressers yesterday.





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Thursday, 6 August 2026

Word of the week - Preparation

We're off on holiday soon and there is lots to do.

There's not a lot we need to do.

There was a lot we'd planned to do.

I have 6 weeks school holidays and 3 weeks have passed already.

Then there are two weeks where we'll be on holidays.

Then 10 days before I go back to school in which I have some planning to do and a camping trip to organise.

Then 3 days of panic where I look at my 'to do' I wrote in June with all the things I was going to do in the school holidays, that I swore I'd actually get round to doing this year and not leave till the last 3 days.

So I brought that list forward and tackled a fair chunk of it on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday, along with packing for the holiday as a lot of it made sense with going away anyway.

The van had the water tanks emptied and cleaned and the tea, sugar, jams etc were all removed ready for a restock. The solar battery was also charged.

The garden was tidied up with plastic pots and the soft furnishings put away as there is some rain forecast while we're away. 

We'd already dug up the old fir tree and potted up some shrubs that we wanted to save. We moved pots where they had a chance of survival, slightly shaded from direct sunlight and a chance of grabbing some rain and we shifted the spare soil to the front garden after we'd treated the weeds the previous week. We are now ready to lay the path when we get back from holiday.

The hanging basket has been going on for ages so it was moved onto the gate where it will get some rain.

The beds were changed for the cat sitter and the litter tray and cat food was stocked up.

The house was given a good clean.

The loft rooms were tided up as my son in Australia had made a plea over the weekend to find some very important documents he needed to apply for his Australian passport now he has citizenship. Originals could not be located, but I found copies on my laptop and sent them over to which he responded with 'oh I've got those' He didn't know what he was looking for. I'd had to move a book case to get to the loft access.

At 31c on Monday in the loft rooms I was not over impressed, he did send a message of apology for stressing me out. But at least now the rooms are tidy and organised so when we get back from holiday I can start my crafting projects straight away and I've taken all the photos ready to upload items onto Vinted.


Holiday packing has been going on most of this week also. We've got 20kg checked in luggage and 10kg hand luggage each. We'll use our full allowance going out, but probably return quite empty, we usually do on holiday.

Suitcase packing is more about comfort than clothing for me. I bought an inflatable (£5.99 from Aldi) for sitting on, on the beach, using in the pool, relaxing on the balcony and using on the grassy banks at our hotel. There's a foldable beach chair (slightly rusty) which we already had for Peter (will leave behind)

8 books (from the charity shop, will leave behind) 

I've packed an absorbent bath mat and beach towels from a previous holiday (probably leave behind)

All the below packed in picnic cooler bag:

Boiler and milk frother for my lattes. Will buy a souvenir mug when we arrive. Some tea bags and ground coffee and sugar for the first two days.

Have tea towel and dish cloth and washing up liquid for dishes and clothes and a first aid kit (will leave behind)

Packed sponges and zip lock bags so we can have home made ice packs. Plastic cutlery and Tupperware pots for lunches (will leave behind).

Extension cable as the plug sockets are never near the bed or anywhere useful.

Peter travels much lighter than me and will pack the day we travel with just his clothes leaving everything to me, which I quite like. He does help with the lists so he knows what I am packing will ask if I've got certain things.

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The best bits of July 2026

In absolutely no particular order here are the best bits of July 2026. The photos have uploaded in a random order.

Back to St Andrew's pre season frendly against FC Barcelona. We won on penalties 3-2 and a visit from Jude Bellingham.

Camping trip on my own for two nights to Coleford.

Making friends with the locals, they followed me up along the hedge to the gate.

Spent the day walking along the the Wye, zig zagging between England and Wales with my friend of 29 years.

Couldn't be bothered to wait for the bus to my great nephews (Thing 3) rugby training, so I ran the 4 miles and begged son for a lift back.

I was supposed to drop the cat pole off at my friends on the way but she was delayed at work, so it came camping with me, I reassured the campers next to me I didn't have the cat with me, the little girl was disappointed.

I treated myself to day out doing the things I used to do with Stephanie, I really needed it.

Stephanie's rose smells beautiful, gift from a friend last year top mark the first anniversary.

Been uploading clothes to sell on vinted, been doing very well.

Can't believe how much is flowering considering how little rain we've had.

A visit to Goodrich Castle

A visit to Stephanie's old respite home, where Peter and I met.

Camping and visits from our grandchildren.

Maybe I should've taken the cat camping with me.

Found myself a new material supplier in Birmingham. More crafting in progress.

The floozie in the Jacuzzi 

Exploring the canals in Birmingham.

Walking and running over the Malvern Hills.

Enjoying time in the garden.

Gifts from son in Australia.

Enjoying fruits from the garden.

Weird combinations of foods.

Neighbours have been round to play.

Endless crops.

View of the MAlverns from Croome Park.

Croome.



The MAlverns, every where is just so dry.

Having fun ins school with a paper nail bar.

Late birthday present from my friend.

More yummy foods.

Training 3 times a week in the gym.

Despite the shock of a blow out, I received a lot of help.

Camping in Newport and watching the football.

My troll collection came camping with us and has a new house with my almost 3 year old great niece.

Tredegar House in Newport.

My cactus from Dubai keeps having babies.

Last seasons BCFC kit finally arrived.

Endless coffees.



Late birthday cake.

Snowshill.



My old student's prom night.

I'm surviving on 4+ a day.

I made a mobile nail bar for my granddaughter.

How was your July? Did you have fun?

 

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