Friday, 31 October 2025

Post Comment Love - 31st October - 2nd November 2025

Welcome back to #PoCoLo with Stephanie from Bosworth.Life and I.

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We've just got back from half term in Northern Ireland after a week with child 4, his wife and our two grandsons. We camped on Lough Neagh in the van with the awning set up. it was chilly, but we had plenty of blankets and the van has heating and we shared the dry robe when we needed to visit the bathroom. Peter used the showers on site, I waited till we got to our son's house.

We baked cakes, went shopping, to the park, went out for an early birthday tea, visited the farm for halloween, had an early birthday party, read lots of stories, had bath time and lots and lots of cuddles.


This weekend we have the van to unpack, the awning to dry, I've a football match to watch up in Birmingham and Peter is off to collect our granddaughter for the night on Saturday as I'm taking her to West Midlands Safari Park for the day on Sunday.




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Thursday, 30 October 2025

Word of the week - Fun

We've had a lot of fun this week in half term.

We've had fun baking.

Fun on the farm.



Had some Halloween fun.






Celebrated our grandsons 4th birthday a week early.


And just fun in general with our grandsons.






There is more fun to come on the weekend, with a football match on Saturday and a day out to West Midlands Safari Park on Sunday with our granddaughter.

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Monday, 27 October 2025

Autumn and Halloween crafts and plans

I love Autumn, it's my favourite time of the year. Apple Crumble.The colour of the leaves on the trees and the sound of the leaves underfoot. The golden hue of the sky in the evenings and the mornings and the glimpses of blue skies. The crisp misty mornings and the randomness of the weather on walks.







It's my favourite time for clothing also, jumper, jeans and boots and fingerless gloves. No need to drag out the heavy winter coats just yet, stick an umbrella in my bag for the odd bit of rain, the blankets come out for the evenings, the curtains get drawn and life just gets cosy.

I don't enjoy what follows though, the clocks going back, the darkness and the wet and the cold, but I do look forward to Christmas.

I love seasons, planning the gardening, rotating the contents of my wardrobe. It's something I missed when we lived abroad, just endless summers in Dubai, which whilst they sound appealing, it gets boring and half the year just too hot to enjoy. South Africa'w weather was perfect, with only two seasons, Summer and Winter and the opposite of the UK, and the days being almost of equal day to night. 

I've always enjoyed Halloween and decorating the house and taking the kids trick or treating, it wasn't something that was done in South Africa, but in Dubai, like every other festival, it was celebrated in style. 

Since we've been back in the UK we've been to Northern Ireland for Halloween with our grandson and taken Bob to the pumpkin patch with our granddaughter.

I've still got my decorations I made from a sponsored post during covid and quite a few that are over 20 years old. I've made a few new ones this year and now the grandchildren are older we've booked a trip to Streamvale Open Farm in Northern Ireland and a visit to West Midlands Safari Park.

This years halloween decorations:

Pool noodle, cut into four lengths, wire added with cable ties to form the legs, wrapped in black plastic and tied together in the middle.



Old cushion covered in black plastic and attached to legs.

Add googly eyes and tan dah!

I've added the hedgehog and squirrel and the mushrooms to the wreath this year. I need to find a better way to attach it to the front door. It's currently attached with a ribbon threaded over the top and through the letter box.

I've decorated the dining room ready for our granddaughters visit on the weekend and I've a few more decorations to out on Friday morning and in the hallway for when I open the door for trick or treat.

I saw these decorations at a National Trust property and decided to have a go at making them myself. they were easy to make but time consuming, around an hour for each one.


I've also got some fabric and china pumpkins in the lounge that will stay out, along with the door wreath until the Christmas decorations go up, then will come back out until the beginning of March when they will be replaced with the decorations for Spring time.

We're currently in Northern Ireland for half term visiting son 4, his wife and our two grandsons. We're camping on Lough Neagh. We're off to the Pumpkin Patch at Streamvale Farm. We've got dressing up costumes to wear. We're baking halloween cakes. It's also our grandsons 4th birthday next week, so we're celebrating that while we're here also.

I often feel winter kicks in and starts once the clocks go back and bonfire night is over even though it doesn't begin until the 21st December, it's made harder by the fact Christmas has been in the shops since September just as we got into Autumn.




Sunday, 26 October 2025

Week 43 - One Daily Positive and Project 365

I've got a lot done this week and it's surprised me how efficient I am when I leave things till the last minute. Usually it stresses me out, but I've come to realise that these deadlines are self imposed and does it really matter if a card or gift is late as long as it gets sent. I've stopped sending gifts and cards to people who never even let me know things had arrived, let alone said thank you or sent anything to me and mine, a long time ago. Those who do appreciate the effort and cost I make don't mind if things are late as they know there will be a reason. I've also stopped doing a lot of things for others, little ever came back. Talking the pressure off myself is making my life a lot more enjoyable.

Sunday Day 291 On the road by 8.30am to the Forest of Dean to go to church with DIL, the outlaws and grandson as granddaughter wanted me to meet her friends. She took me to Sunday school where she had me taking part in a variety of activities. Peter went to the house with our son. We then all went out for a Sunday lunch in the local pub. Home by 5.30pm. I was exhausted and went to bed for an hour after a bath whilst Peter watched football. Rest of the evening spent cutting out some patterns for a sewing project and writing letters. Plus filling out custom forms which involves weighing and recording individual items. Christmas off to son in Australia and cousins in USA.

Monday Day 292 The day started with a 2 mile run/walk. I’m now running for as long as I’m walking. I went into town to post my parcels and spent the afternoon reading. In the evening we watched The Hack and some football and I started work on some hedgehogs and a pumpkin from some old books.

Tuesday Day 293 A lazy start to the day then picked my friend up and went into Worcester to see Roofman and found a gluten free cafe for lunch. Home late afternoon to finish my books, stew apples, tidy the Tupperware, make some Christmas chocolates and got started on some bunting on my sewing machine.

Wednesday Day 294 Out for an early morning run. Home and loaded up the van for a skip run which Peter did while I headed off to the nail bar. Late afternoon and early evening spent making Halloween decorations and putting them up outside and decorating the dining room.

Thursday Day 295  Woke with a headache. Got Peter to drop me in town before he went to see his mum. I had coffee, went to the post office then home. Got everything out the loft for camping trip. Wrapped some birthday and Christmas gifts, tidied desk, baked cakes for freezer for Halloween then off to Bromyard for return to work discussions. Dropped birthday gift off with friend then home to chill out, bath, wash and dry hair and pack clothes. In bed by 9pm. Still got headache.

Friday Day 296 Out for a run, got a nail fixed then home to pack the van while Peter booked his flight to Turkey. I ran the hoover round and sorted the cat out. Drive to Birkenhead took forever with traffic. A stop at Cheshire Oaks for a wander. Peter had dinner but I waited till we got on the ferry at 10pm.

Saturday Day 297 2nd car off the ferry at 6.30am in Belfast. Sat outside son’s house till 8am waiting for them to wake up. Collected grandson to help us set up camp, played in the park and had lunch in the cafe. Back to his for cuddles with his baby brother and I had a shower, then off to the outlaws for dinner. Back to camp at 8pm. We set the van up and Peter had a shower while I flaffed around sorting out bedding. Heating on and books read.


Things to make you smile:
Playing (Bluey) Grannies with grandson

Things that made me happy:
Video calls between the grandchildren showing one another their halloween gifts from us. Cuddles with our grandsons. Being able to move onto week 5 of couch to 5k and making my 3rd 5 minute run without having to stop or getting out of breath.

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Word of the week - Making

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Friday, 24 October 2025

Post Comment Love - 24th - 26th October 2025

Welcome back to #PoCoLo with Stephanie from Bosworth.Life and I.

Post Comment Love #PoCoLo is a friendly weekly linky where you can link up any blog post you've written this week. If you're new or a regular visitor we're sure you'll find something of interest.

We'd also appreciate your help spreading the #PoCoLo word on Twitter, tag us and we'll RT. You can find us on twitter here: Stephanie - @BosworthLife and Suzanne - @ChickenRuby 

I'll be catching up with reading your posts, sharing and commenting over the next few days. 

I'm back to work after the half term. It's done us the world of good to have this extended time together to get our thoughts in order about our future without Stephanie as we marked the first year of her death. We returned to the UK and to this part of the world to be near her. Not only did Stephanie die, but so did a huge part of our lives. Due to her disabilities, we always had the worry of who was going to care and fight for her, after we were gone, in the natural order of things. We no longer have that worry and in equal measures, as much as it's a relief, it also causes great sadness that that battle came to an abrupt end also and that has taken just as much adjusting to as her death has. We just didn't realise it.

I've made the most of the time off, with visiting family and friends, chilling out and getting jobs done around the house. I've started running and have just completed week 4 of couch to 5k and have several craft projects underway to work on throughout the winter months.

This week I've been getting my halloween on.








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Wednesday, 22 October 2025

Word of the week - Making

This week has been about making a lot of things.

Changes: To my mind, attitude and body. All of which is reflected below.

Decisions: To let things go. I can't undo the past, I can't control or even influence how others react or respond towards me, but what I can control is how I react and respond to others. It doesn't mean I no longer hurt, but it does mean I'm no longer allowing things or people out of my control to take up so much physical and mental space in my life. I have a lot of positive things and people in my life that deserve my time, that I deserve to have in my life and from now on, they are my focus and my only only focus and I'm letting go of the negativity that drags me down, holds me back and causes me so much upset.

Things: Halloween crafts and decorations and finally getting round to making name bunting for the latest two grandchildren and bunting triangles for my great nephew and great niece who are now both 2. I made bunting for my 3 great nephews and 1 great niece when they were born

Commitments: I am now in a routine of regular exercise and on week for of couch to 5k, with other exercise on the days in-between. I have my first park run lined up for November 8th and a few other runs penciled in that I'm aiming to complete. having a deadline makes me commit.

Revisions: Do I want to return to work? I'm due to start back after the half term. I have a meeting tomorrow to look at my new timetable, new role. I've decided I'm going to be making a go of it, giving it time and a chance. I'm not a quitter. I don't walk away from things, but if it's not right for me, I'll be making more changes in the near future.


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Monday, 20 October 2025

The good bits of September 2025

September was a busy month. We started it in Australia with plenty of walking and a trip to Tasmania before we travelled to Dubai and back to the UK. I started a new job. I raised £850 for Bowel Research UK on a charity walk. There was plenty to do in the garden and some lovely fruit and veg to come back to.

Cat 


Two trips to watch Birmingham City play, Peter came to one.



I bought myself a cheer up jumper.

Misty autumnal mornings.

Not sure how many books I've read this month.

Lots of local walks in Malvern.

A visit to the Three Counties Autumn Show.












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