My mum bought us a 'in loving memory rose bush' on the 6th month anniversary of Stephanie's death.
I always think 'anniversary' sounds like something to be celebrated. It's been 8 months since Stephanie died. I was counting in weeks and soon it'll be years before we know it.
Stephanie will NEVER be forgotten, she is in my mind every day. There are photos and items of hers dotted around the house, that have always been with us, but her physical presence is missed and the ache in our hearts doesn't heal, nor does it get better with time, we're just learning to live with the hole she has left in our lives.
I planted the Rose with my grandson on the anniversary.
It flowered for Father's Day which made me really happy and hopefully it will flower the same time every year.
What a lovely idea, I love how rose bushes can be planted and give you that physical memory of Stephanie every year. I remember my mum helping planting a rose bush called Papa on my dad's grave.
ReplyDeleteSending love and hugs. How lovely! I know she will never be forgotten but the rose bush is a beautiful tribute to her. x
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely way for your mom to show her love while honoring your daughter at the same time! You'll have an extra special memory of your grandson helping you plant the rose bush, too! And it's especially fitting that the bush bloomed on Father's Day! So sweet!
ReplyDeleteMay your good memories of Stephanie help you through your grieving. As well as your grand children, family and others.
ReplyDeleteI am struggling a lot with the whole anniversary/remebering thing. Not that I am forgetting or need help remembering but I just don't know what to do with all these emotions. It is Cameron's birthday this week - I know we should celebrate or light a candle or do something but honestly all I want to do is curl up in a ball and cry.
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