Tuesday, 2 April 2013

Lets talk about sex


The reality of Sex
Why is it never like it is in the movies?

Probably a lot to do with how the media portrays the ‘perfect lifestyle’ career, the perfect marriage, wonderful home and the most amazing kids, through newspapers, advertisements etc.

I also hold writers responsible. You know the ones that write the Chick Lits, screen writers for movies.

Picture a typical romantic film or even an action one. You know where after the good guy saves the world and gets the girl? They’re hardly through the door and they’re ripping one anothers clothes off and having sex against the wall in the hallway, him holding her off the ground. Cut to next scene and they’re lying in bed, perfect hair and make up, his wounds have healed and wrapped seductively in a sheet.

Now I know there is poetic licence used here, but come on, has that really ever happened?

In reality its arrive home after a days work, collected the kids from wherever, a boot full of shopping. This mornings breakfast dishes to be sorted, shopping to be put away, kids homework to do, arguments, dinner and plonked down in front of the telly around 9pm absolutely knackered, feeling like you have just saved the world and the fateful words ‘Early night love?’ or ‘ you having a shower/bath before bed’

And what happens next is nothing like the movies. After a typical day there is no way you can get on with it without a shower, there is never a piece of furniture strong enough for him to prop you on, as there is no way he can lift you off the ground like that. There is washing over the bed, you’re lying on the remote, getting tangled up in the bed sheets, pillows piled high, toppling on your head, ignoring the TV on in the background, ‘did you lock the door?’ ‘Is that one of the kids on the landing?’

And as for the morning, there is no crisp sheet wrapped round you, you’ve either already put your PJs back on or just pulled them up, your hair is a mess, your make up is everywhere. There’s a child knocking on your door for their breakfast.

There is no loving smile and breakfast in bed and the conversation goes like this.

‘Eugh, go clean your teeth’

‘Why do I always sleep on the wet patch?’

9 comments:

  1. Love this... I have a habit of sneakily shifting my bum over to his side of the bed so I don't have to sleep in the wet patch!

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    1. its never on his side of the bed is it?

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  2. Hmmmm...I must be strange

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  3. Haha but this married sex, have you forgotten singles sex? Hubby is laying next to me in bed and he reminds me of all the fun and frolics we used to have, including outdoors. But I will admit he's never been able to lift me, and pillows on my head always happens! Maybe you should meet your hubs at a hotel, pretend to be strangers, and drag him upstairs to your room :)

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    1. not sure the reality is as good as it sounds.......lol

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  4. LOL thank you for this post I now feel completely normal :)...........this is just so true!! :)

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