It's been commented on quite a bit that I'm lucky to have lived in one place for so long to make so many friends, however the friends I've visited to date all live within a 10 mile radius of where we have our UK base in Monmouth, a place I've never actually lived in before, but it near to a former home I had when the 3 boys were young in the Forest of Dean, we only lived here for 8 years (the last two of which I met Peter. We've just all remained close and over recent years I've met one or two people in this area on twitter who have now migrated to real life meet ups.
From my birth in 1971 up until the birth of my second child in 1995, I'd lived in Newport, Leicester, York and Herefordshire in various locations. After remarrying we moved to Malvern for 8 years before going onto South Africa and our current home in Dubai.
My MIL lives in Bath and I have a friend I met online there also.
As a consequence of all the moves I don't actually come from or belong anywhere. The children list their home as where they currently live which is Australia, Northern Ireland and 3 in various parts of Gloucestershire.
62 Sunday Went with mum and child 3 to the retail park for a few hours, it poured with rain and we met my nephew at the Celtic Manor for lunch. Called in a friend's house for the evening as I heard there was cake baked by her 11 year old daughter.
63 Monday Drove to Malvern for 9am, visited the Estate Agents to sort out a few issues with the house and tenants and visited a friend for the afternoon, in the evening I visited another friend, we went out for dinner and I stayed over night. Received the sad news that my mums brother died this morning.
64 Tuesday After a relaxing morning and a dog walk around Malvern and a coffee I returned to Monmouth, via a visit with child 1 and a friend's mums house for a quick natter.
65 Wednesday Drove into Bath and met MIL for some shopping and lunch then to a friend's house for the night to catch up, eat dinner and drink a lot of wine.
Tintern Abbey toilet stop.
66 Thursday Had a nice lie in and left Gillians at 9am, sorting out British Gas contract and doing a bit a shopping on the way back to Monmouth. I spent the afternoon on paperwork and booking flights then went to a friends for tea. The flat above and below me are currently empty so no need to worry about when I put the washing machine on, on this visit which resulted in a late night for me.
67 Friday met mum in the morning, had some banking and finances to sort. popped over to see my nephew and his partner to drop off a birth gift as I won't be in the UK (probably) when the baby is due. Then off to see child 2 and 2a who live in the same village.
Sorting gifts for Easter and birthdays while I'm away.
68 Saturday Took Mum to Cwmbran for the day shopping, received some exciting news from my niece and her husband that Thing 4 is going to be a girl. Out for a curry with a friend this evening.
On the blog this week:
Around the house in Dubai for February and my pathetic attempts with #myhousethismonth
Going Green with the use of charity shops.
How do you measure your achievements? I've got a certificate for cup cake design in my kitchen.
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I feel the same. I have moved around a bit in my life. All around the North East but I wouldn't say I belong in Northumberland I just live here.ReplyDelete
Lovely photos! It sounds like you have had a great week of meeting up with various people.
I am so sorry about your mums brother. x
I've no idea where I'm from/belong these days, it gets so complicatedDelete
You certainly have visited a lot of people this week! And you get to see Mary and me later too. That's a lovely family photo at the top and I like the photo of the church in darkness. You must have to be so organised with sorting all your presents early.ReplyDelete
it's so easy to organise. I'm not back in the UK now till the middle of June so I just leave everything between now and then with mum to post, loved seeing you both yesterdayDelete
Love that church in the dark photo. Busy week seeing everyone.ReplyDelete
it sure has been, home now for a restDelete
You're the woman of the world, Suzanne. I've lived half of my life in the UK now, and we definitely moved a lot, including 3 years in the States. I think my home now is here, where I live, and where my boys are, but at the same time I don't think I entirely belong here. Neither do I belong to where I was born and lived as a child.ReplyDelete
It looks like it was a busy week for you, with all the meet-ups and visits, and sorting out the flat. My condolences to you and your family on your loss.
The Tintern Abbey looks romantic and a bit eerie.
I'm just looking forward to living in one place where I can make my own decisions abpout my future and not be dictated to by Peter's jobDelete
You sound really busy catching up with loved ones and being super organised #365ReplyDelete
it's alwasy full on when I'm in the UKDelete
Was sorry to hear about your Uncle. i always think it's weird when my OH talks about only living in one place, he's only lived in three different houses, all in the same town. I thought I was slowly working my way up the country, but looks like I'm stuck in the shire now. That's a rather lovely toilet stop! #365ReplyDelete
thank you Mary. I can't actually wait till I'm in one place and never have to move againDelete
I am so sorry to hear about your mum's brother. Such lovely photos and sounds like you have had a great week meeting up with people xxReplyDelete
Sounds like a busy week with lots of friends and family to see. Sorry to hear about your uncle. I must admit I'm a bit of a home bird and have only really lived in Brum apart from 4 months in Switzerland.ReplyDelete
i'd love to be a home bird,. i'm fed up of it all nowDelete
Oh that does seem like a busy week, driving around meeting friends and running errands!ReplyDelete
Sorry to hear about your mums brother
thank you, it's been quite exhaustingDelete
I live 2 roads away from where I grew up! My BIL lives 2 houses away from his childhood home! I can't imagine moving around and travelling so much #project365ReplyDelete
I'd love to have a base, somewhere i feel i come fromDelete