Welcome back to #PoCoLo with Stephanie from Bosworth.Life and I.
Post Comment Love #PoCoLo is a friendly weekly linky where you can link up any blog post you've written this week. If you're new or a regular visitor we're sure you'll find something of interest.
I know a lot of people just come here to link up or 'dump and run' and it's easy to focus on those who do just that and complain about, but over the past few weeks, I've realised that too much time has been taken up on the negativity and the disappointment of the people whose absence has been greatly noticed when we have been at the lowest point of our lives with the death of our daughter.
We've been focusing so much on the people who should have been here, noticed by the lack of calls, messages, visits, that we've been angry and it's taken away the focus from what has really mattered, Stephanie. In a way it has helped us cope with her death. We've had anger, but it's not been focused at her, at the medical professionals for letting her die. We know there was nothing that could've been done.
We haven't allowed the absence of others to take away our appreciation of those who have actually been here and we can never thank those people enough and I truly hope that we never have to repay their kindness, although I know sadly in some way there will be a time when we will, some we have already been there for.
So if I leave 10+ comments a week and share 10+ posts from this Linky and only receive 2+ comments back, then who cares. I have 2+ comments from people who value me, 2+ people who have taken the time to connect with me, share just more than a link. They've shared their time and their thoughts and that's how friendship grows, both online and in the real world.
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You are on a journey, Suzanne, with lots of forks in the road as well as hills and valleys to navigate! Wishing you peace as you venture through it all! ❤️
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DeleteIt has helped me to have some normality throughout the past few weeks, although I do scheduled posts several weeks in advance
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